I am Mistress Black, an international Mistress, originally from Spain, though my regular cities include London, Milan, Rome, Berlin, or Madrid during regular tours.
My interest lies in BDSM, particularly on the psychological plane, as I believe it forms the foundation before any physical practices. I prefer a submissive who truly enjoys their role and implements torture or humiliation as a reward rather than punishment. To me, this subtle distinction between Mistress and Dominatrix is crucial. While I embody aspects of both, I primarily identify as a Mistress. In my understanding, a Mistress is an exemplary figure, a mentor, a woman whom you view as a goddess and feel compelled to worship not just because she's clad in latex with a threatening whip, but because the desire to worship her becomes intrinsic, something you'd do even if she were in pajamas. Positive reinforcement is key, not negative.
I firmly believe that BDSM can be therapeutic for both parties when practiced ethically and without prejudice, fostering complete self-acceptance. People from diverse backgrounds come to me, but I can generally categorize them into two groups: those driven by hate and those driven by love.
The former group seeks to fill a void, overcome fear, or mask a blockage, while the latter group seeks self-exploration and genuine understanding. I endeavor to redirect those in the former group, guiding them toward a journey of self-awareness where their experiences with me yield positivity. Their blocks, fears, or taboos should become pathways to self-love. And of course, I guide those in the latter group on their beautiful journey toward self-expansion.
Furthermore, my interest extends to the spiritual aspect of sexuality. I delved into tantra long before BDSM, and upon exploring the latter, I realized they share more common ground than I initially thought. I enjoy leading the submissive into a state of trance, acceptance, and surrender akin to deep meditative states.
While I emphasize the psychological aspect as foundational, I also engage in a wide array of physical practices, which I relish as personal fetishes. As an appreciator of elegance, I prefer to discuss these matters in private. I specialize in inducing adoration as a fundamental element, often centered around foot worship, feminization including sissy training and baptism, as well as clinical themes, among others.
I conduct an initial screening based on your presentation. I value elegance and proper manners. While I welcome novices, you must possess a basic understanding of how to address me. This is just a glimpse of what is required.
I can speak English, Spanish and Italian |
