As autumn deepens, I find myself moving through a season of unfolding — of talks, travels, performances, and writings that all circle around the same pulse: desire as devotion, embodiment as language, and transformation as art.
Throughout the coming months, I’ll continue with the core of my work — offering coaching and mentoring sessions, as well as BDSM rituals and ceremonies for those who wish to explore consciousness, intimacy, and erotic power as paths of growth and self-realisation.
here I gather the current threads of my practice — a new blog exploring love and pain as sacred offering, upcoming talks and performances in London, and reflections from the meeting point of the erotic and the esoteric.
🌹 New Blog: BDSM Couple Ceremony part II | Catharsis… An Act of Love
👉 Read “Catharsis — An Act of Love” and subscribe to my blog (8 entries per year)
https://www.maitressenuit.com/blog
🎤 Songs of Shadows and Ecstasy — Talk at The Last Tuesday Society
An Introduction to BDSM & Kink for Modern Relationships
“BDSM and Kink: Differences, Overlaps, and the Language of Expansive Desire”
Monday, 20th October 2025
🎟️ Book Tickets Here
https://thelasttuesdaysociety.org/exhibition/shadows-ecstasy-introduction-to-bdsm-kink-for-modern-relationships-live/
The Last Tuesday Society & Absinthe Parlour are headquartered at
The Viktor Wynd Museum of Curiosities,
Fine Art & Natural History

11 Mare Street London E8 4RP
Doors open at 6:30pm and talk starts at 7pm
✨ And the Explorations Continue... in Berlin
A few days after the talk, I’ll be travelling to one of my favourite cities in Europe for the Occulture Conference — an international gathering of magicians, mystics, artists, and thinkers exploring the intersections of magic, philosophy, and the esoteric.
(I'll in Berlin from 22nd until 27th of October)
🎭 Another Date to Pencil In
Friday, 21st November
I’ll be returning to the Nocturna Club, created and curated by the extraordinary Elena Gibson — ballerina, pole artist, and visionary of this darkly elegant celebration of movement and desire.
Once again, I’ll be contributing a new BDSM Chronicles soundscape and an accompanying promenade through the audience — a quiet ritual of connection and shibari, performed with my slaves before the show begins.
The first edition was a beautiful success, rich with energy and intimacy. I’m looking forward to stepping back into that space — where performance, music, and erotic presence meet.
👉 Visit Nocturna Club on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/nocturna.club/
💎 And If you wonder were my deviant imagination meanders, how it informs my rituals, ceremonies and scenes, and you find yourself unable to attend the Seraglio, my London abode... Let the sound of my voice lure you in my crimson chambers.
👉 Subscribe to “In Praise of Shadows | The BDSM Chronicles”on Patreon
https://www.patreon.com/c/BDSM_Chronicles
As usual, should you want to contact me, drop me an email:
NuitdOr@protonmail.com
Here’s to autumn’s unfolding — to learning, creating, surrendering, and to whatever wants to emerge next.
Nuit d’Or
🎯Throughout the season, I continue to offer one-to-one coaching, mentoring, and bespoke BDSM rituals for those wishing to explore presence, power, and intimacy as pathways of transformation.
👉 Learn more or book a coaching and/or mentoring session
https://www.maitressenuit.com/coaching-mentoring
👉 Learn more or book a BDSM session
https://www.maitressenuit.com/session
AUTUMN 2025 BDSM SESSIONS AVAILABILITIES
I will see clients and potential slaves, submissives, and otherwise interesting and genuine BDSMers and kinksters connoisseurs and novices for training on the following dates:
OCTOBER
16,17 AND 18 from 13:00 to 18:00
30, 31 from 13:00 to 18:00
NOVEMBER
• 1 from 13: to 17:00
6, 7 from 13:00 to 18:00
• 8 from 13: to 17:00
• 13, 14 from 13:00 to 18:00
• 15 from 13: to 17:00
• 20 from 13:00 to 18:00
• 27, 28 from 13:00 to 18:00
• 29 from 13:00 to 17:00
DECEMBER
• 5 from 13:00 to 18:00
• 11, 12 from 13:00 to 18:00
• 13 from 13: to 17:00
• 18, 19 from 13:00 to 18:00
• 30, 31 from 13:00 to 18:00
